What is the “IT” factor? I know you have heard about it, read about it, and maybe even talked about it amongst your friends or with some of your artists. But really… what is “IT?” Is it a great song? A good look? A good stage show? All of these things are the symptoms of someone who has the illusive “IT” factor. These things just come naturally to those who have “IT.” An artist or group who has “IT” can walk on stage and do no wrong, sit down for an interview and command attention, and they always seem to have a look that makes people want to know them… no matter how they are dressed, when you see them, or what the circumstances are… they just have “IT.”
“IT” is an attitude, a drive, and a passion that is deep within you. It’s the ability to know what to say, how to say it, where to go, why to go there, when to stay, when to leave, how to act, what to do, and why to do it at that moment. It’s almost a super power ability to fit in no matter where you are, who you are around, or what is going on around you.
“IT” is confidence!
Notice, I didn’t say cockiness, arrogance, conceitedness, assuming, domineering, egotistic, know-it-all, overbearing, lordly, or on an ego trip. I said someone who has the “IT” factor has confidence. You can be confident and still be real, easy to get along with, nice, helpful, admirable, courteous, thankful, gracious, inviting, well-mannered, charming, and most important approachable!
Confidence allows you to walk in a room and not worry what people are thinking. “IT” allows you to walk in that room and hold your head high and give people the impression that they want to know you because you command attention simply by your swagger. Confidence allows you to sit down with the press and not worry weather you will mess up or not because you already know you might mess up and that everyone messes up who gets interviewed and this allows you to concentrate on quality answers, because you are ready, rather than messing up. Confidence allows you to walk on stage in front of 10 or 10,000 people no matter what club, what city, or what show you are performing at knowing you can only do your very best to entertain, because you are ready, rather than worry if you are good enough to impress everyone in the crowd. Most important though, confidence allows you to be comfortable in any situation you find yourself knowing that you are as prepared as you can be at that moment and can only do your best no matter what goes down! Ahhh, there it is, the light bulb moment, the moment you might have missed if you weren’t paying attention…
Confidence, or the “IT” factor, is knowing that you are as prepared for anything that comes your way! The only way to be confident that you are prepared is to have the knowledge ready when needed…
Think about 7th grade for a minute. Man, 7th grade sucked butt for most guys and girls because it was the time you knew what the opposite sex was and what it meant, but you were awkward, unsure, and uncomfortable around the opposite sex because you had no confidence in 7th grade that they would like you. OK you wise asses, I was hoping some of you would say “I had no problem with the opposite sex..” Actually I was counting on it. You had the “IT” factor of the 7th graders! Why do you think some of you reading this had “IT” and others didn’t? Because you had knowledge. You had the opposite sex talking to you, looking at you when you walked down the hall, and you had them passing you notes! Because of this knowledge you had the confidence it took to walk up to them, talk to them, and ask them out. To the guys or girls that didn’t have this knowledge or confidence, you had the 7th grade swagger or as I like to call it, the “IT” factor. But what you really had was the knowledge that the opposite sex already knew you existed because they noticed you, they talked to you, and they looked at you. Knowledge is power!
But now think back a minute…. wasn’t there at least one kid you can remember that was a geek, shy, or basically someone you would never think could get “that girl or guy” to date them? How did they do it? No one paid attention to them, they didn’t sit with the “in” crowd at lunch, and they sure didn’t dress the part of being a “popular” kid. How did they do it? How did they walk up to girls or guys and get them to pay attention and not get laughed at? They had confidence! They didn’t care what people said, did, thought, or how much they got laughed at… they wanted the opposite sex bad enough that they knew they had to “just do it” until it worked. After they did it enough, or gained the knowledge of trial and error no matter if it meant being rejected or laughed at, they had confidence! That confidence allowed them to walk up to the “popular” girl or guy and get a kiss even though everyone in 7th grade didn’t think they should have! Ahhh…. so artist development, or in this case 7th grade development is simply practice and dedication to learning no matter how stupid you feel, what it takes, how hard it is, or what people think about you while doing it because you want it that bad! Folks, that’s another light bulb moment… don’t miss it!
Again, knowledge is power, knowledge is confidence, and confidence is the “IT” factor you are searching for in your artists or yourself! Without it you will never have “IT.”
You can develop the “IT” factor and it is actually pretty simple. It just takes effort and practice. It is artist development. Artist development is practicing your interviewing skills with friends, family members, and family members friends. You do this by having people sit down and interview you. Be sure to record it so you can listen back and see what needs work. After you do it enough times you will start to form basic answers to any question that is thrown at you. Answers are knowledge, knowledge is confidence, and confidence is the “IT” factor. Do the same thing with your live show. Set up a CD player and start working on your live show. Record it to video. Watch it, see what needs work, and perfect it! The more you practice and watch your practices the more knowledge you will have as to how your show looks. Once you know your show looks good you will have the confidence to go perform in front of 10 or 10,000 people knowing that you have a good show. This is the “IT” factor! Artists development feels stupid at times. You mess up, you look like a fool, and your friends may laugh. The “IT” factor from within gives you the drive to keep doing it until they don’t laugh. I promise, if you don’t feel like a fool you are not doing it right! Think about that geek in 7th grade, he or she kept doing it even when rejected until they got it right!
Everything you do as an artist requires practice, better known as artists development. If you are not developing yourself or your artists you are messing up. I promise there is another artist or label across town that is putting the time into artist development right now. They are working hard to build confidence that will lead to them having the “IT” factor. A boxer trains everyday, all day. That is his or her job. Your job is being an artist. Practice it all day long. Put down the playstation controller, stop spending time just “hanging” with your friends, and start working up your knowledge base!
Good luck… although with knowledge you don’t need luck… and get to work!
Peace,
Jai
Hip Hop Business Advisor
I am MUSIC network
“Love the MUSIC in Yourself, Not Yourself in the MUSIC!”
July 15, 2009
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